The ijjjji sex guide (under construction)

(I-guide to Best Sex, Anal Orgasms, Multi O's etc)

Scary's squirt method is spot on! Very good description!! Hit that deep spot with a pointing move repeatedly and do detours down to the G-spot (unsmooth spot behind her clit) and SCRATCH it quick and return deep..

To me however, this is boring! Much like a male orgasm, she will feel like cuddling up and going to sleep after this. Same with clit stimulated orgasm. When I fuck a chick I like to WEAR HER OUT through multiple deep spot orgasms and both vaginal and anal fucking for a LONG time. (Also, I feel so goddamn un-manly when giving orgasms with other things than my dick. Like.. a fucking DYKE could do the same!!)

So I'll share my multi/anal orgasm technique since this is what I really enjoy and I think you will too, when you try it.

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1 Do only VERY LITTLE make out during PU. Same with kino. If she shivers whenever you touch her, you have done this right, and created an UNSATISFIED CRAVING for you, inside HER BODY.

(Read 'Seducing girls' on my blog for more practical ways to set this up during PU and foreplay and even during sex itself.)

2 To bring her to the deep spot orgasm, you follow the slow-advice in 'seducing girls'. When she wants you to speed up, you remain at the exact same tempo. The more strictly you can stick to this slow rhythm, the better. When she starts to get ALL CRAZY for you to escalate the tempo, do this:
-Fuck her in the position that lets you go the deepest. (Slightly twisted spoon for me)
-Do not alter rhythm/tempo.
-Do not alter the speed you slide in/out with.
-Only increase forcefulness.. like when you get fully inside and the resistance from 'bottom of vagina' builds, apply force so you go a bit deeper. Try to visualize your dick as a piston that will go to a certain depth, regardless of resistance. Escalate this 'deep end force' only.

3 Deep spot O's are multi-orgasmic. After the first, its actually easier to get the second. Just hold dick perfectly still inside her while caressing and kissing her head/neck for 30ish seconds. THEN start moving again in THE SAME slow rhythm. Start with no extra force and repeat like in step 2. Feel free to go for more Os if you have the energy. My personal best is 11. (Seriously.. once you get going, its easy to get many with this technique.)

4 To make her want to have anal sex, you must create a UNSATISFIED CRAVING for you inside HER ASS (much like step 1). This might take a few days to set up. Massage her ass A LOT, but be GENTLE and NEVER put finger inside, even if she starts moving towards you. Do a lot of spooning in bed where you put your dick against her ass-hole and massage it gently with it. Again, no hard pushing or trying to go inside. POUR kino and kisses on her hair, neck, back and ass while doing this. Do it for a looooooong time. Also massage her ass a lot during sex and especially near and during orgasms (can be tricky to combine with technique in step 2. For me, trick is to get her legs as high as possible.) When its time to actually do it, do this:
-Progress towards one of her orgasms as per step 2. Massage her asshole as usual, but make sure you get a lot of pussy juice on it.
-Push flat with 3 fingers to make ass open a little without inserting anything, and rub her like that to get some of the juice inside her ass.
-Pull dick out and start fingering her deep spot while massaging ass with dick head (no penetrating yet!)
-Start pulling her rear deep spot towards her asshole. Do it more and more while moving finger in and out pushing entire rear wall of vagina backwards so you can feel it is squeezed between your finger and your dick on her asshole.
-Start massaging her rear deep spot only and NOW.. start helping the squeeze effect by also forcing your dick rhythmically against her ass. This is ALL you do. Your mission is not to stick it in. Your mission is to massage her rear deep spot from 2 sides, ONLY. If her ass does not open by itself through this process, be content by bringing her to orgasm like this. Sooner (rather than later), the desire for a more intense pressure on the deep spot will have her ass open up to you.
-When you start ass-fucking, you never push it deep in a single motion. Think about it! There is no lube deep inside her. What you do is tiny fucking movements like half inch or less. I like to do them quickly, so she cant react/adjust to each movement. I also like to do it for maybe 10-20 sec, getting a bit deeper, then pull back slightly for a 10 sec timeout biting her neck and such, then repeat going slightly deeper..You can gradually go deeper with them, or just do them at one depth, then at a slighter deeper depth for a while and so on. Key thing is to progress depth SLOWLY. And dont forget getting lots of pussy juice on her ass repeatedly since your dick will dry out a bit as it progresses deeper.


Important notes:

-Never talk about anal, and never ever plan it. Talk kills that whole INNER CRAVING I mentioned, and also makes it a logical issue, which is bad.

-I LOVE experiencing a girls orgasm when my dick is in her ass. But it seems that girls enjoy this even more. Do not ruin the possibility for experiencing this with her by putting dick or fingers up her ass too early!! To be safe, follow my guide, even if she seems keen. Even when a girl think she is ready, she might not be, and if its painful, you got to do LOTS and LOTS more priming before she is ready again.

-If you blow load too early for making her O like this, try jerking off an hour before sex. As you get better stamina, increase this time gap. Also, dont be afraid of pulling out and do a bit of kino/kissing only if you feel you are gonna ejaculate too soon.

-Show no regard for her orgasms. If they become your focus, the pressure will prevent them from happening. Just do your thing (my thing) and enjoy it

Again, never ever talk about it! And enjoy!!




Cool! Heed the new frame though.. you are no longer aiming for her O. You are animal who wants to fuck.. in.. that.. exact.. tempo.. for.. a.. very.. very.. long.. time..

Also try the spoon but slide down to almost a sideways doggie style (especially when the FORCE is required). I think you will notice that no other position allows you to be so extremely hard for an hour or two.. (you need this extreme hardness to be fully forceful).

And yeah, no escalation until she is going crazy for it - very key throughout. Her UNsatisfied craving is the key.


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