100% Anal Method
Getting A (anal) is sometimes easy and sometimes really hard. Since its my b&b sex-wise, I have developed a whole system to ensure I can get it from all girls I meet, because if I cant, I simply lose interest. In short, a lay dont even feel complete to me until its done, and done in a way that ensures that the girl wants more of the same. Keep this in mind, or you will think that my method is horribly excessive.
STEP 1: Make her CRAVE sex very strongly.
Without this, you can totally forget getting A from a girl who had a bad experience with a former (retard) BF, and decided to never have A again. The tools for achieving this are outlined in my sex guide which can be found both in Archive and on ijjjji.blogspot.com. Its 100% required that you read it, so go do that now.
Okay great, now that you read and understand the basics of how to create sexual craving. This understanding is key, because rest of this is based on exact same principal.
STEP 2: Focus her sexual craving towards ASS specifically.
After making a girl crave sex and (optional) giving her some, make her relax on her belly in bed. If girl is lying on her back, pretend you want to spoon, but continue into more of a back rub where she ends up flat on her belly. If she is not too ticklish, aim for a feather light rub - not a heavy massage. start from hair/neck and run hands down to her lower back. Over and over again. A bit like stroking a cat. Pay attention to her reaction, as you do it slower.. and slower.. and slower. When you notice a slight TREMBLE in her body, especially as your hand stops near the top of her tail bone, YOU FOUND THE MAGIC TEMPO. Use this tempo only, as you follow the rest of this method.
Continue the same rub (and tempo) as if you will do this until the end of time. But do it soulfully, paying attention to her reactions, breathing on her neck etc. Notice that her ass starts to lift ever so slightly each time your hand comes to a halt on her lower back. Try to see if you can somehow respond to this by rubbing even slower at these moments. (At this point you can also try just rubbing her hair/neck for a short period. The whole idea of course being, to make the ass feel LEFT OUT.. ACHING for your touch.)
Sidenote.. a big clue to all of this is to NOT react when girl tries to make you escalate in one way or another. Keep doing the EXACT same for a while. Let her get a good TASTE of the feeling of ACHING FOR MORE.
So after a good while of girl pushing her ass up and/or twisting around a little or making soft sounds of sexual frustration, you lengthen the rubbing LITTLE by little, but more to the side/hip area. Again let her reactions be your guide. When you reach a bit down her thigh, keep doing it like that for a while.
In a similarly gradual way, transition to fully rubbing her buns. Use some creativity here, alternating between feather light and deep massaging. Very slow and deep massaging creates 'micro trembles' that travel up her ass, so this is highly useful IMO.
Next, mix in some rubs that AIM for her asshole but turn to the side before hitting it. Also massage the inside of her buns, again mixing light with really deep rubbing that totally spreads/opens her ass. Spreading her ass quite forcefully like this, PRIOR to even touching her asshole seems to be really great for focusing all that CRAVING exactly in her ass.
Sidenote.. picture a table with an even a layer of sand. With your hands you start scooping the sand towards the middle of the table creating a pile. This is what we are aiming to do to to the sexual craving here! If you pay attention, you can easily feel from her reaction if you are on track with this. If you are, you will get an increased tremble or similar reaction, whenever you touch new areas. (And if you dont, you didnt give it enough time or your tempo was off. Take a step back and do it properly.)
Along with spreading her ass to the point where it probably hurts a little, I also tend to start fist grabbing hair and holding her head firmly down at this point.. as a way of gradually increasing the 'brutality' since anal sex has a brutality component to it...
After (again) doing the same for a while (letting her really taste the craving), I like to simply place one hand on her asshole and hold it there while massaging it shortly, then go back to massaging and spreading her buns, again mixing in some hair pull etc etc in a loop until I sense the anal craving is getting far stronger than whatever inhibitions she had to begin with. You can easily gauge this by how much she pushes her ass out, as you massage her asshole.
Sidenote.. you probably havent done an STD test TOGETHER with this girl yet (You make her pee on a glass and go to a clinic together with her hand in both her and your urine sample asking for a full STD check.) so you are gonna wear a condom for the next part. This is tricky for two reasons. A: Getting it on without losing too much sexual momentum/craving. B: Lubrication is a much bigger issue when using condoms.. Solution is to get the condom on fast as lightning (feel free to practice putting it on with speed!!), and to take the time to re-kindle her craving a bit before progressing further..
Ok condom is on and you are mixing between massaging her buns and her ass hole, and she is again starting to go a bit spastic.. now, quickly scoop some juice from her pussy (which should be all soaked at this point), and rub it on her ass, increasing the pressure until you feel it starting to open slightly, but DO NOT INSERT YOUR FINGERS. Keep doing this some more and scoop some more juice if possible.
Next, gradually move on top of her without breaking the mixed massage. Mix in some hair grabbing etc, until you are on top of her. Now, gradually transition to massaging her asshole with your dick in the same way you did with your hand (NOT INSERTING), while one hand massages and spreads her buns, and the other holds her hair/head firmly in place. Add some neck and ear kissing.
Sidenote.. use the hand that massages her ass to keep your dick on her asshole. One method is placing one finger over and one under the hole so your dick doesnt slide up or down.
Most girls will actively try to self impale their ass on your dick at this point, and unless the girl is extremely inhibited, your dick will start going at least slightly into her ass from this mix of things. So just stay with it, focusing only on spreading and massaging her ass while keeping things intense and steamy, letting her do most of the movement required for actual penetration.
If zero progress, I do the following: Sort of suddenly grab her head and ass holding her still. Veeeeerrry gradually, increase the pressure against her ass hole. One of two things will happen. A: Her ass starts to open slightly. or B: Her ass tenses up and closes firmly. In case of A, just keep the pressure briefly, before returning to massaging, and repeat doing the hold + pressure thing now and then until getting a bit inside, and be satisfied with that for now. In case of B, transition to spooning and shower her a bit with kisses and kino while massaging her ass with your dick in a gentle way. Keep this 'cuddle' up for a long time, and do it as often as possible from now on (evenings, mornings and whenever you cuddle). Always make it really good for her and never show hint of frustration. In my experience it will take from 2-6 weeks of this before she starts gradually welcoming you more and more inside.
Whoa that got much longer than intended. Anyways, this is extensively field tested, and my thickness has been an issue in general with some girls, so Im not even sure most guys will need the 'trouble shooting' part at the end. IOW, it really works! Enjoy :D :D :D
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